What a steaming turd of an opening line in David Streitfeld’s otherwise serviceable New York Times piece about the Ellen Pao/Kleiner Perkins sexual harassment lawsuit, and gender discrimination in Silicon Valley.
Here’s the opening graf (bold-ing, mine):
MEN invented the Internet. And not just any men. Men with pocket protectors. Men who idolized Mr. Spock and cried when Steve Jobs died. Nerds. Geeks. Give them their due. Without men, we would never know what our friends were doing five minutes ago.
You guys, ladies suck at technology and the New York Times is ON IT.
The ghosts of RADM Grace Hopper, Ada Lovelace, Radia “Mother of the Internet” Perlman, and every woman who worked in technology for the past 150 years frown upon you, sir. Women may have been invisible, but the work we did laid the groundwork for more visible advancements now credited to more famous men.
“Men are credited with inventing the internet.” There. Fixed it for you.
I ragequit this article like, 10 times, and couldn’t get past that awful opening line. But eventually, I managed to put down my frying pan and unbunch my apron, and I sat down on my princess tuffet and asked a man to help me read the whole thing.
There’s a lot of other interesting but to my mind, tangential stuff in the piece about the sexuality of Ms. Pao’s husband, and accusations of litigiousness and sexual harassment on his part. And, a sweet but even more tangential quote from his ex-boyfriend, who sounds like a real mensch with a kind heart.
But the unchallenged dismissiveness of this quote is the kicker:
You don’t really hear about randiness and mistreatment of women. That doesn’t prove it’s not there, but that’s not the lore.”
The LORE? Are you fucking kidding me?
I worked in Silicon Valley, and in technology startups in other regions, and have experienced sexual harassment and gender bias. It’s as normal and constant a part of the landscape as the fabled foosball tables.
Where to begin with this quote, really? First, “randiness” isn’t what causes sexual harassment. Men don’t pressure junior female co-workers into unwanted sex because they’re “randy.” And the fact that it’s not in the fucking “lore” doesn’t mean it’s not real.
I have no special knowledge about the truth, or lack thereof, in the Pao lawsuit. I know only what you and I and everyone else can read in the court documents, in the context of what I’ve experienced as a woman who has worked in the technology industry for about 20 years. I can’t speak to the merit of this case. But, Earth to dudes: yes, this stuff is real and normal, and so are we.
Lucky for Streitfeld, and the rest of the world, that the Women in Technology conference happens to be under way today in Santa Clara. Stop by and get a clue.
Oh, and? I, too, cried when Steve Jobs died. And I still idolize Mr. Spock.
@xeni I’ll tell my mom who programmed via punch cards in the ’70s that her efforts didn’t count according to @nytimes
— Tony Pierce () June 3, 2012
@xeni I doubt my mom, who put up with this crap in grad school, xerox & bell in the 70s & 80s, would be surprised that nothing has changed
— Zoie () June 3, 2012
@xeni My Mom’s killer UNIX and C compiler work at Bell Labs on switching systems in the early 80′s, well, you know – she needed a hobby.
— Margret Bell () June 3, 2012
@xeni I worked with Betty Holberton on FORTRAN standard. She was 1 of first 6 programmers on ENIAC-all women
— Rich () June 3, 2012
@xeni It’s not even just erasing women in tech; it’s also the clear claim that maleness had something to do with the achievement…
— Aaron Bady () June 3, 2012
@xeni …that male overrepresentation isn’t consequence of gender inequality (true) but is actually the *cause* of advances in tech (false)
— Aaron Bady () June 3, 2012
@xeni I knew women working on interface design when most male programmers’ notion of user interface was RTFM
— Mike Godwin () June 3, 2012
@xeni @betajames Admiral Grace Hopper and her zombie navy shall rise from the seas to make war against the New York Times for this outrage.
— Richard Mehlinger () June 3, 2012
@xeni My grandmother was a programmer and mathematician back in the 50′s and 60′s. Her PhD thesis was published by her adviser as his own.
— Lisha Sterling () June 3, 2012
Hey @xeni, fixed it further: “Some asshat at the @nytimes credits men with inventing the Internet.”
— Mike Monteiro () June 3, 2012
@xeni I cried when Steve died too, and I worked for him in 1993 as a unix recruiter. It’s how I started programming, began w/ NeXTSTEP
— Nicole Valentine () June 3, 2012
@xeni A foto of my grandma & her classmates j.mp/Ma0VXy. She was MIT, class of 1920. Electro Chemical Engineering, Worked at GE.
— Susan A. Kitchens () June 3, 2012
@xeni My mom was the Jet Propulsion Laboratory’s first editor-in-chief; that was in the 1950′s.
— kirkmurphy () June 3, 2012
@xeni my mom was the first female punch card operator and then sent herself to night school to learn COBOL. While raising 3 kids!
— jash () June 3, 2012
@xeni my mother _taught programming_ to USS ‘management trainees’ for IBM 1960-62.
— Chris Connors () June 3, 2012
@xeni I learned VAX /VMS Internals from the WOMAN who literally wrote the book, Ruth Goldenberg.
— Matt Phelps () June 3, 2012



